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Words That Need Each Other


Words That Need Each Other

a ‘guest poem’ by my mother, whom I’m always delighted to feature. The illustration I did by hand with a single slim black brush in Photoshop, two layers, then a scattered text overlay to create the ‘sprouting’ letters.


The character of discourse in the realm of religion also differs from the one we normally adopt in scholarly or scientific discussions. In the realm of scholarly discourse logic reigns supreme. Or it should. It is the discourse of fine distinctions, precise terminology and rigorous analysis. In that theoretical realm one persuades by reasoned argument. Not so in the realm of religion. There the language of speech is emotive, like the language of therapy and of love and of passion. What is said in that realm makes us feel at home or raises our blood pressure. The language of religion aims to convict and is directed at the heart. It makes one squeal with glee or squirm uncomfortably. To understand the meaning of this language demands empathy of the heart rather than logic of the head.

The language of religion is the language of soul. It is deliberately provocative. It makes one happy or sad or angry. To understand soul one needs to park one’s reason and open one’s heart. It requires empathy rather than analysis.

Harry VanBelle, emeritus professor of psychology, Christian psychologist and psychotherapist – 2013

The character o…